HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE

There are many karmic imprints that have plague so many people. You may have heard the phrase “hurt people hurt people” but have you ever wondered why some people seem to be so callous in their dealings with others? Imprints are caused by traumatic experiences and most of the time those experiences happen during childhood. Imprint are usually unconscious and can even be passed down through, generations/ ancestors, and DNA and can show up in your life as karmic patterns/loops of repeating the same experience or lesson over and over again. They can affect people physically, mentally, and emotionally. However, it’s not always so black and white and the person doing the hurting doesn’t always have malicious intent. It goes deeper than just hurting people. Karmic imprints such as not feeling deserving, feeling unworthy, shame/guilt, self lim beliefs, perfectionism, control, depression, and codependency, and fear can all be contributing factors to why you keep attr certain people, experiences, and even blockages in certain areas of your life. People are conditioned based on their experiences and to get to the root cause of certain behaviors and triggers is based on whether we react or respond and also how we react vs respond. Many people get caught in conflict cycles with different people. These cyclical cycles happen when a particular pattern has not be transcended through healing or a person hasn’t fully learned to behave differently. These triggers can also cause a person to feel different emotions particularly fear, anger or frustration. So why do people hurt people? Most of the time it’s unintentional and caused by misunderstandings. Even when it’s intentional there’s is a conditioned belief that causes someone to feel justified in their actions and whether they perceive their actions as good or bad is mainly the point of the trigger. No one is exempt from these imprints. We all have hurt someone whether intentional or not. For example, sometimes people shut down emotionally and isolate themselves but consequently that can hurt the people around them making them feel abandoned. Those people may in turn get upset and may either react or respond. Some people manipulate their partner to remain in control usually because they are afraid of getting hurt. There are so many different ways these imprints can manifest but they usually affect an area of your life where you need to do the most learning, healing, and experience the most growth. It is also my belief that the healing of these imprint are triggered through mirroring. Mirroring shows up through relationships of all kinds but it’s purpose is to reflect aspects of your shadow that you haven’t healed or haven’t confronted. Many empaths experience this mirroring phenomenon by attracting relationships with narcissistic or controlling people. Sometimes you form relationships with past life soulmates and agree to come into this lifetime through a karmic contract to work through repressed trauma that is affecting your ability to heal. Imprints are usually the main reason for these contracts. Either way these imprint are usually triggered by a catalyst. A person or event that starts the journey towards healing. You higher self will send you the right info, signs, and people, to help you along your path while you work through these imprints.